Discussion, Understanding and Understood by #LisaOnTheGo
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LisaOnTheGo what is being understood or understanding by others?
They have been times in her life she has been misquoted or misunderstood. #LisaOnTheGo feels she is different than most, more sensitive and is an out-of-the-box thinker and thinks everyone could understand her. Only to find out, that no, the other person took it out of context, gave it there own meaning or didn't understand at all. She is learning to stop herself and truly look at the other person, facial expressions to see if they understood or ask questions.
#LisaOnTheGo thinks everyone thinks like her and interprets things the same way. As you know, with life experience you learn this isn't true. Recently, at a meeting, LisaOnTheGo met and was talking to a career coach about LisaOnTheGo. The ins and outs of the business, the website and then LisaOnTheGo recognized that look. She assumed this person understood the basics of how a website works and videos on a website. In addition, to LisaOnTheGo Blogs, the importance of social media, and website needs.
She recognized that look and the career coach saying they understood websites, in fact, didn’t understand. The upsetting factor for LisaOnTheGo was why did they go along, pretending to know by acknowledging and nodding their heads in the yes position. LisaOnTheGo was uncomfortable in this situation and unbeknownst to them changed subjects.
Life experience has taught LisaOnTheGo to be clear and specific. Whether to understand others or others to understand her. It is then a choice for herself and others to decide whether to continue the conversation or not.
LisaOnTheGo says if people understood you, not accept what you are saying but understood you this is effective communication.
Also, LisaOnTheGo could say she understood the discussion and doesn’t accept it, her opinion, judgement or interpretation. However this is a validation for others that they were understood, you were listening and heard. This is communicating at its best.
Being acknowledged and validated LisaOnTheGo feels is what most people are looking for in a conversation. This is communicating.
Next time you are having a discussion with someone try validating, acknowledging the other person and see how it feels. First for you then truly look at the other person and how it feels for them.
is proud to be a "bitch" lol, love it. Why when we are true to ourselves we are then criticized. Why can't we be who we are and not be labeled? Does labeling dictate who you are?
Where is the balance on criticism, taking care of others, being called a victim or taking care of ourselves and being called a bitch?
Today is the day to be proud to be you, who you are and trust, believe in yourself? Why do we believe others are so right and know what is best for us? Here is the cosmic joke, others do not know what is best for us, nor do they know our lessons here on earth, nor do they know the core of our inner beauty in us, that is for us to learn and know. That is why we are here to learn and love ourselves,
What makes your heart sing?
What activities do you like, enjoy and have fun? Are you making your living doing what you love and loving what you do? OR earning your living because this is where you make the money? Is this being true to yourself?
#LisaOnTheGo says it is time for a change and to start encouraging, supporting yourself and following your heart.
Yes, it could be helpful to talk about your perceptions of the good, the bad and the ugly. This helps to give the whole picture that you or one perceives to have. Take all the information surrounding you, go within and follow your heart. Meaning the facts and knowledge are one angle then add in your heart desire, go within and listen; now you could make an informed choice for you in your life. This is your path and goes where you are led and yes this is called being a "bitch" now be proud and label yourself a "bitchology". You are being true to yourself, lovingly, listening and taking care of you.Have a great day! Love, Laughter & Peace, LisaOnTheGo author of Bitchology unknown Wellness & Preventive#yoga, #meditation, #inspirational #talks #quotes, #acim blog writing copyright LisaOnTheGo.com