Feeling Trapped in Life?

Feeling Trapped in Life?

Feeling Trapped in Life

What is feeling trapped in life? LISAonthego says where you feel you are in cage and can’t move. The situation has power over you and is there almost daily. Many things in life could have us feel this way for many reasons here are some examples: Marriage; You want to leave and feel trapped: Financially, Custody, Housing: Job; Financially, Your boss, Difficult to find another job: Family and Friends; Have control over some part of your life that you don’t walk from, Financially, Emotionally.

In each of these categories we could see the reasons. Sure, an easy answer is doing what is good for you and walk away. If you could leave the marriage, get a new job etc. Go for it.

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What if you are feeling trapped and its Karma?

 

 

 

Karma is a lesson we came to learn and no matter how hard you try to overcome the situation or events it keeps coming back. You feel trapped in this situation and no you can’t walk from it. It’s the most difficult part of your life. You have expressed yourself, yelled/screamed, jumped up and down, ignore it, nag and nothing works.

In truth feeling trapped has power over you, it controls you and the negative thoughts.

Attitude makes a difference in these circumstances and is our best teachers in life. You feel horrible, your heart doesn’t sing and your ego mind keeps playing the drama. The drama and the stories keep playing and the more you keep doing it, look around the more stories and dramas come.

How to handle feeling trapped and getting your power back?

  • Stop the ego mind thoughts – Pay attention when the negative thoughts start, stop and consciously change these thoughts. Fake it till you make it. This takes time, however you will see by doing this your heart will sing more.
  • Find your peace! However you find your peace, find it. This may mean journaling, exercising, talking, meditating etc.
  • Don’t allow the situation to have control and power over you. Own it and take it back https://lisaonthego.com/lisaonthego-lide/ Part 2 https://lisaonthego.com/l-d-e-leedy-part-2-lisaonthego/

This is taking back your power.

LISAonthego has lived this drama for many, many years this blog is from life experience and yes feeling trapped karma. Finally after all the years, it’s done! Hooray! Its not easy, its really difficult and once I surrendered to peace and took my power back, it all changed.

She will now tell you those were her best teachers and yes more than one teacher, in fact many. LISAonthego was great at drama and stories and the universe supporting it. Wow, it’s amazing how it kept coming around until FINALLY she learned to take her power and be in her peace. The universe does test LISAonthego and it’s a reminder to go within. The tools and activities on www.spiritualfitnessonthego.com helped LISAonthego find who she is.

Good Luck to you, LISAonthego

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Feeling Trapped in Life?

Are you your Authentic Self?

Are you your authentic self?

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We have many influences in our lives. As a child LISAonthego was influenced by authority figures and would act accordingly for many years. She was not her authentic self and went along with the flow. Guess what, this doesn’t work well.

Getting to know your Authentic Self is process.

It takes time. As we gain more life experience and the rollercoaster of ups and downs is when we learn about ourselves. LISAonthego has been on many rollercoaster rides and this impacted her life. The time came when she would listen to others and be angry with herself for not doing what resonated with her.

How do you get to know you and do what resonates for you? Many of the tools, activities and talks are on www.Spiritualfitnessonthego.com. The following is some of the things LISAonthego did to become who she is today.

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ARE YOU YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF?

Motto –  When LISAonthego does what others wants she gets angry with herself and others are happy; When LISAonthego does what she wants she is at peace and others are angry with her. Lesson Learned: Others don’t stay angry and get over it

  1. Life could be so busy and overwhelming that there is little time for us. The first weekend     LISAonthego spent alone was an eye opener and now this has been life every other weekend. Who am I? What do I want? This was the beginning of learning about LISAonthego. She was scared, nervous and curious what does she do with this time? That first weekend:
  2. LISAonthego watched television, learned the shows and movies she enjoyed.
  3. Read
  4. Food shopping and cooked for herself what she wanted
  5. Called friends
  6. Played the game what is my favorite? (to learn about herself) Food, clothes, friends, activities etc.
  7. Read the A Course in Miracles lessons each night and attended group
  8. Had a therapist that LISAonthego trusted and listened to. By the way a huge impact in her life she was awesome in teaching her about LISAonthego
  9. Ces ultra – Helped LISAonthego in many ways and she still does the CES- Ultra every night (9 years later) http://www.elixa.com/shop/ces-ultra/ website lists all the benefits
  10. Learning to speak the truth from her heart, not what others wanted her to say or do. Yes LISAonthego speaks from her heart, as she perceives the truth to be for her.
  11. EFT tapping -  https://lisaonthego.com/inspired-speakers/  eft-emotional-freedom-technique

Being your authentic self is not easy others resist and let you know it. You know when you are speaking your truth when you feel the peace within you. To this day LISAonthego still uses and does the above list. It takes time to learn who you are: be patient and understanding. Most important above all else be your best friend and surround yourself in love you and forgive yourself for everything you didn’t do. The rest will come.

Have a great day. Love, Laughter & Peace, LISAonthego

 

#When LISAonthego does what others wants she gets angry with herself and others are happy, When LISAonthego does what she wants she is at peace and others are angry with her, #Lesson Learned: Others don’t stay angry and get over it, #authentic self, #be who you are, #empower

Feeling Trapped in Life?

Someone Close Dies, What to do?

Someone Close Dies, What to do?

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LISAonthego had someone close to her past away last week unexpectedly. She received the phone call as she listened to the other person she went from numb to shock.

The ego mind reacts with the chatterbox and has a lot to say. It keeps going and going. As time goes on the thoughts continue, has us feeling guilty for not saying or doing. During this time LISAonthego said stop, cleared her thoughts, took some deep breaths and refocused.

LISAonthego then decided to go within and be proactive. What happened? Okay, the person has there own journey and choices. Yes there is always something we didn’t do or say and the what if, what if I would have called, stopped by, said something more etc. Now forgive yourself for everything you didn’t say or do this is life and the chatterbox within us. We all have the what if scenarios play in our minds and the after thoughts of what we could have done. LISAonthego had to let this go and remind herself to love herself. Every moment is perfect. Then LISAonthego decided to be proactive and try to stay clear minded.

Make a list of things that would need to be done. Who needs to be called? Where are we going? Staying? Arrangements? Etc. Keep the ego mind, chatterbox busy with chores and this helped LISAonthego to keep focused and calm.

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Now for those people that will be around that don’t resonate with her. This was a task and she did her best. First LISAonthego had to understand her emotions are raw. Its like your protective shield in these times leaves you, you are standing naked and everyone could see. Isn’t this awkward and uncomfortable. This is your true, inner spirit coming out and expressing who you are in tough circumstances.

Yes, LISAonthego wasn’t always at her best and would take time for herself; she called a friend, went outside and removed herself. Its so difficult at these times feeling exposed with emotions and yet comforting having the people that matter to you be there whether that day or that week or that month.

Emotions are raw at this time and others are too. Etiquettes are nowhere to be found. People are talking material items that the person owned, feeling entitled and deserving. LISAonthego walked away, they are material things, not important. Material items could be bought in the memory of the person.

LISAonthego kept things in perspective of what is important and that is family and friends. They came together at a difficult time, to help and support each other. Let everything else go. This is where your closest family and friends come into help. The chatterbox would go and the lesson was “none of it mattered”.

LISAonthego chose a few people closest to her and would call them or they would call. We would talk the drama and stories and LISAonthego would be reminded to let it go. These people know LISAonthego well and would have her understand the drama or story and remind her to go within. LISAonthego had her peace, her peace of mind and love. Love, Laughter & Peace, LISAonthego

"PLEASE Please don't ask me if I'm over it yet. I'll never be over it. Please don't tell me that he is in a better place. He's not here with me. Please don't say at least he's not suffering. I haven't come to terms why he had to suffer at all. Please don't ask me if I feel better. Bereavement isn't a condition that clears up. Please don't tell me you know how I feel unless you lost your son. Please don't tell me,' At least you had him for so many years.'What year would you choose for your son to die? Please don't tell me god never gives us more than we can bear. Please just say you're sorry. Please just let me talk about my son. Please mention my son's name Please just let me cry."

- Anonymous

#death, #someone close to you dies, what to do?, #someone close to you dies, #LISAonthego

Feeling Trapped in Life?

Does What You Are, Impact Your Life?

Does What You Are, Impact Your Life?

LISAonthego says yes. Who you are; is utmost important.

Defining What You Are? This is how we present materially to the world: Our clothes, makeup, careers, cars, homes, vacations, education etc.

What we are is an emotion to how we feel about ourselves. It’s the presence we set to the world. If we feel awesome, we portray awesome, if we feel sad, we portray sad. This affects how we feel about ourselves. It influences our self-esteem and confidence. Therefore it's important to work daily what we are. Taking actions that make ourselves feel good about us. For example, showering, styling our hair, makeup, the clothes we wear, cleaning our homes, office desk, car, taking time off from our routines and going to the movies, beach, mountains, boating, skiing, bowling, dancing, going to a sporting; music; theater event etc.

What you are is about entertaining our ego minds that make our heart sings.

No one has an easy life; we all have drama and stories in our lives. However what you are influences your whole being. We experience the highs and lows in life. Learning in the low times, not feeling well, in treatment, feeling symptoms from an illness, losing a job, someone dying, financial issues etc. These are the times to get up and take an action of what you are so you feel your best. Take time off from life and do something that makes you feel good about you. Go shopping, meet a friend, go somewhere etc.

By taking care of what we are impacts our own lives. You are most important. You make the choices in your own life. You have your own journey and others could be there lovingly to support us on our journey. Ultimately our journeys are our own, our own choices and the path we choose for us. Others are here to teach us or we teach them and go along for the ride together.

What are you doing for you today that affects what you are?

Love, Laughter & Peace, LISAonthego

#what you are #empower you #lisaonthego #who you are

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Feeling Trapped in Life?

LOVE YOURSELF by KHARI

 

LOVE YOURSELF by KHARI

(Anti-Bullying Song) the video is below the blog (listen to daily). A true inspiring, detailed, informative rap song

LISAonthego this is an awesome rap song by KHARI and reinforcing YOU MATTER MOST. When we don't take care of ourselves first then no one else could too. Listening to LOVE YOURSELF daily has awesome affirmations to tell us daily and remind us who we are! Who we are and who we want to be. Thank you Khari for the inspiring rap song to Love Yourself.

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Emotions, Thoughts, Manifestation and Reality

Emotions and thoughts are actions. We have a choice to change one or both. In life we have total control over our emotions and thoughts. No one could take this from you! Choices are yours and yours only.

Our Emotions are the way we feel, interpret and view us. Emotions are actions of energy that respond or react. They could be feelings, a knowing of us that come from our ego mind or spiritual hearts. Emotions are not right or wrong they are what they are. The actions of our emotions become our thoughts.

Our Thoughts are talking to us, our chatterbox in our minds. The chatterbox is talking to us based on the emotions we are having. These actions are negative or positive that is in the ego mind. The chatterbox travels in a circle form with no true answers that tells us stories that we could believe. In these thoughts you have the power to change them to being positive, override the negativity, stories, dramas and taking the action to change your emotions. Going within to the spiritual heart and listen within, be still, be quiet and stop the chatterbox in your thoughts. This isn’t easy to stop our chatterbox.

How to stop, halt or quiet your chatterbox?

For positive results LISAonthego uses the tools and activities on Spiritualfitnessonthego.com. Guided Meditation, yoga, EFT tapping, listen to Inspired Speakers, a lesson in A Course of Miracles and other spiritual modalities found on website, Spiritualfitnessonthego.com You want positive results go into your spiritual heart then the answers for you are present. This is an awesome rap song Love Yourself by Khari and to use as a daily affirmation.

In your actions be clear, detailed and specific in what you want to achieve. Change the actions of your emotions and thoughts to the get the end results. Remember you don’t like the emotions you are experiencing or your thoughts then change the action until it resonates for you.

Manifestation comes from our actions of emotions to our thoughts.

www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/manifestation Simple Definition of manifestation. : A sign that shows something clearly: One of the forms that something has when it appears or occurs. 

Change your emotions to change your thoughts to manifest what resonates for you in your spiritual heart. Manifestation is obscure. It can’t be seen, tasted, smelled, heard or touched. It is the power of energy from our actions. 

Reality is the occurrence of emotions, thoughts and manifestation.

This is the end result. Yes, it may not be the way we saw the outcome. They are many factors that come into play. Humans views are narrowed it doesn’t have the ability to see the whole picture or know everything. We only see what we see and only know what we know in that moment. We are unable to see all of the aspects this is us being human and have control by our actions in the here and now. 

In LISAonthego’s experience due to her human views and unable to see the whole picture her reality most times isn’t what she has projected. Sometimes better, sometimes not and eventually with the passing of time she has an understanding of the occurrences. She has learned lessons, or taught others and eventually see gifts to herself that has resulted in the person she is today. 

Have a great day! Love, Laughter & Peace, LISAonthego