Upset, Others Saying Everything is Okay

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Upset, Others saying everything is okay. You’re with a group of people, family, friends, colleagues for a few days and want no drama/stories. However, other people are making decisions that affect you and you don’t agree.

You don’t want to be controversial and it’s not a feeling right within you. What do you do?

Initially you don’t react and let it roll to keep the peace. Others are agreeing with the decisions to keep the peace too, although they don’t truly agree. The person making the decisions just wants what they want however they could get it. These decisions are based on principal and selfishness. https://lisaonthego.com/selfish-sell-fish/

It gets better. Others now are saying what a great time they are having, everything is well and saying to you, don’t you agree? You are being approached several times a day from others and reinforcing their position how great things are. They want the peace and not speaking their truth. You just want your peace however this doesn’t mean backing down your feelings, its means responding from your heart and what it means for you. Be in your power, loving you and responding to your viewpoint. You have choices too, you don’t have to participate, change your plans so they resonate for you and respond (responding is talking from your heart and positive) not react (reacting is being angry, frustrated and negative)

Others then talk and try to convince you again all is well. While they are convincing you, lol they are trying to convince themselves.

This is what it is for them, be you, hold your ground, calmly and peacefully. Funny though, after the fact, a few days later 75% of the people agree with the decisions. They didn’t want a confrontation or drama that they did it for the peace and regret the go along momentum.

Imagine if people spoke the truth.

The selfish person couldn’t have been controlling and more people in dilemma. Also, the inner processing people did for a few days to admit they didn’t agree. We all have choices, choose your choice for your walk in your truth, peace and feel great for being you.

Love, Laughter & Peace, LISAonthego

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Are You Selfish or Sell-fish?

Selfish – LISAonthego’s definition – taking care of your daily needs

Sell-fish- LISAonthego’s definition – your daily care is all about you

LISAonthego says we all need to be selfish in our lives but how far is your selfishiness?

Selfishiness is taking care of your daily needs examples: showering, bathroom, hair style, makeup, eating/cooking properly etc. sure they’re many more things we could do for ourselves however not at the expense of others. Meaning they could be important for you however life could have other plans, for example: taking care of children, going to work, commitments etc.

This is where scheduling in what is important to us is important example: meditating, exercising, shopping, entertainment etc. Making you important and taking care of you along with your other commitments.

Sell-Fishiness is you come above all else. You do what you want and not what needs to be done. When you aren’t getting what you want you are nasty, sarcastic and criticize everyone else. In addition, you are so caught up in your own life, fitting it all in that everyone else is an annoyance. Your focus is on your objectives and when you are with others, your focus is on you and your objectives. Life is about you. When you feel like getting out of your shell and doing or focusing on others, you make it well known. These could be normal everyday chores for most people and yet you have a way to twist these and sell your good graciousness to feel good about you.

Most people don’t recognize this as themselves or others, or know how to verbalize it. LISAonthego has been in the presence of several sell-fishiness people recently. She is now able to verbalize and write about these qualities because she L.I.D.E. (label, identify, describe the emotion). https://lisaonthego.com/lisaonthego-lide/  it. She couldn’t understand why she felt the way she did after being with these types of people. After being in their presence she would feel bad about herself, like she did something wrong and after thinking about it that it had nothing to do with her. So, she L.I.D.E. her feelings, she labeled it to: that she felt insignificant, inferior and worthless, she identified it to: insecure and humiliated and then she described the emotion to: fear and anger. Now from the L.I.D.E. method she now understands what she is specifically feeling so she is aware of these feelings that it is not her and nothing she did and to avoid, deter herself from these people.

Have a great day. Love, Laughter & Peace, LISAonthego

What is Spiritual Awakening?

Updated

What is spiritual awakening? Two years ago LISAonthego was out and came home with hives in one location. She looked up the spiritual meaning of hives and the location and was put to the spiritual awakening urls.

Spiritual awakenings to LISAonthego is learning who you really are. Having that peace in yourself and knowing your belief systems.

It is just being, be who you want to be, surrendering and at peace. This journey of the spiritual awakening is not so easy at times look at the symptoms below. She recognizes this by talking about Spiritual Awakening. She is not alone and either are you!

LISAonthego understands now what is happening. This transition could take time from years to moments depending where we are on our path. After reading and researching, LISAonthego knows this is what is happening to her. She has been giggling at herself. LISAonthego realizes she has been on this path for the past few years. However things are now moving faster and she is experiencing more than half the symptoms. The three best symptoms that has given LISAonthego no doubt: The backend of the website had issues ongoing and ongoing (now resolved), hives (location heart center) and the electrical malfunctions (bought a Macbook Pro in late 2011 and it had glitches till it died in 2013). Bought another Macbook Pro from Best Buy upgraded and this one has been gem. Then she bought an Imac and it perished, lol. (all resolved).

Today in 2017 when these symptoms arise she giggles to herself and chooses peace. She has experienced some other Spiritual Awakenings symptoms recently. She is okay with this because she sees herself growing and exceeding who she was a few years ago. Her LISAonthego blogs have flourished a huge following, the website spiritualfitnessonthego.com is now up and she has leaped in faith and has purchased products she uses and wants to share with you. This is amazing. 

To help move along her path, LISAonthego is presently in a group session with Joanna Chodorowska;  Master of Path to Heal. This is clearing her past and helping to move forwards with confidence, grace and ease. Thank you Joanna.

(story and drama) Who buys an Apple product that dies. LISAonthego’s children, friends, business colleagues laugh with her too because it is unheard of until now Spiritual Awakening. The lesson only buy from Best Buy their warranties/guarantees are superb and they stand behind their products. Will (supervisor) in the PA store is awesome, knows his products (bought the 2nd MacBook Pro from Will he cares and supports his customers. LISAonthego is glad to know and understand what is occurring.

LISAonthego believes her path is to be who she is, believe in who she is and stay on the path in what she loves to do and that is LISAonthego Blogs and the website Spiritualfitnessonthego.com.

What do you know about Spiritual Awakening? Are you going through the process? Have a great day. Love, Laughter & Peace, LISAonthego

SPIRITUAL AWAKENING

Checklist

1. Eat healthier and caring for your body differently
2. Your belief system changing
3. Desire to connect to nature
4. Experiencing synchronicity, being shown that life is not coincidental
5. Material items aren’t needed or wanted as they use to be
6. Sleeping patterns changing (sleeping more or less, waking in the middle of the night etc)
7. Sudden waves of emotion
8. Drawn to inspiration and personal fulfillment
9. Greater feeling of oneness
10. Worrying less, trusting the process
11. Interest and desires changing
12. Power surges hot/cold
13. Vivid dreams
14. Time accelerating
15. Integrity
16. Electrical and mechanical occurrences that come and go (important to ground)
17. Closures in life
18. Changes in what you are eating
19. Skin rashes etc
20. Events that completely change your life (moving, death, divorce, loss of job etc)
21. Creative incentives
22. The feeling you are or have changed and feeling that difference inside
23. Increased integrity
24. Electrical and mechanical malfunctions
25. Increased intuition

UPDATED and added in 2017 http://sunfell.com/symptoms.htm this has over 50 possible symptoms, you don't need to be experiencing everyone, just some to know you are awakening and not alone!

Spiritualfitnessonthego.com by LISAonthego copyright 2015

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A Line from the Movie Interstellar- true or not

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“Love isn’t something we invented. It’s observable, powerful, it has to mean something… Love is the one thing we’re capable of perceiving that transcends dimensions of time and space.”

A line from the movie Interstellar –

LISAonthego watched the movie Interstellar this past weekend and this line has her been her mind and she been contemplating.

LISAonthego agrees and disagrees with this line. She disagrees because she doesn’t feel love is the only the emotion we come with. Most of our emotions and needs we are born with and these are innately inside of us. LISAonthego says it is activated by our hearts and our feelings. This is our spiritual heart minds.

Our ego minds are learned they give us our judgements and interpretations with no true answers. It wreaks havoc in our lives. The one lesson we all have here on earth is to listen within to our hearts and to stop the stories/dramas in our lives and be at peace. Much easier said than done. However, LISAonthego ego’s chattering mind has gotten her into more conflicts than she wishes to recall. The ego mind is awesome at recollection on her life’s events and reminds her of the things she has learned.

What is the EGO - the division of the psyche that is conscious, most immediately controls thought and behavior, and mediates between the person and external reality.

the part of the psychic apparatus that experiences and reacts to the outside world and thus mediates between the primitive drives of the id and the demands of the social and physical environment. http://www.dictionary.com/browse/ego

LISAonthego agrees with these definitions.

We all contemplate why we are here on earth, what is the meaning. Most things here on earth are learned. LISAonthego says our ego minds learns and then communicates and teaches us to express. Our emotions and feelings we come with these are innate within each of us. It is who we are.

In conclusion, the line LISAonthego agrees with in addition to our feelings and emotions that are innate within each of us.  “Love isn’t something we invented. It’s observable, powerful, it has to mean something… Love is the one thing we’re capable of perceiving that transcends dimensions of time and space.”

Love, Laughter & Peace, LISAonthego